CONNECTING TO YOUR SILENT (INNER) LEADER

“Healthy femininity trusts the mystical forces of Life is enough to bring about all goals. It operates from experiencing the present moment and responds with instinctive knowingness and caring for all. It is inclusive in a non invasive way and waits on the intelligence of love to move it. It is receptive, allowing all that is needed to be given it to bring about new forms in life.”

A FEMININE VOICE IS CALLING

A well feminine voice is calling us all – in our own life, and on the planet! Over the last two thousand years, or more, the masculine energy in its corrupted form has governed humanity – hence the state of the planet. Harmonious living with nature is virtually non-existence, and rule of force, wars, suppression of women, abuse, violence and dictatorship have ruled. Corrupt male energies have ruled the earth with a stranglehold on politics, business and schooling, affecting all aspects of society.

Worse still, many women of today, especially in business, have subliminally taken on board masculine attributes and lost themselves in the process. Business research shows masculine qualities are behaviours attributed to success – even women think that!  Things are changing thankfully, and men and women are awakening, and returning, to their feminine force (yes men have a feminine force).  In order for this to happen in a big way, (which is what the world needs) polarised masculinity (present in both men and women) needs to move back into balance with the feminine, and through this, become function as planned.

image001Both these energies are present in all of us, however as a general rule, men’s primary energy is masculine, and women’s is feminine.  This truth is expressed in the yin-yang symbol, where both have a little dot of the opposite colour

When the masculine and feminine are not in balanced expression and cooperation with each other, natural checks and balances are not active. Both aspects then pull apart and polarise, falling out of their natural modes of operating and becoming corrupt in their essence and action.

TRAITS OF HEALTHY MASCULINE ENERGY

Focus

Thrusting forward, driving and making things happen

Initiating and controlling

A foundation and anchor and a backbone

Structure

Thinking, planning and analysing to know what’s happening

Concerned with the outer

Focussing

Head connected

Competitive and focussed on tasks, doing

Works with the ‘I’ – the role and function of the individual and differentiation

TRAITS OF CORRUPTED MASCULINE ENERGY

Overpowering and selfish and ruthless

Forceful, aggressive and brutal

Controlling/megalomania

Rigid and constricting

Undeviating and unbending

Unable to express feelings and emotions or acknowledge or even allow other’s feelings

Busy to a point of never taking time to go inwards

Over analytical, logical to the exclusion of all else

Coldly disconnected from the impact of their actions on others

ROLE AND FUNCTION OF HEALTHY MASCULINE ENERGY

Provides an anchor, form and foundation to the expansive creative force of the feminine, bringing focus and manifestation. It brings healthy individuation, creating borders and structure, and forward movement. (we all need that!) The warrior male energies protect and go into the world to make an impact. It is quietly confident, holding its own and keeping its centre in the face of different opinions or conflict. From this description we can see how important this energy is for both men and women. Doing, impacting and thinking are its key notes.

TRAITS OF HEALTHY FEMININE ENERGY

Mystical

Restful and patient and trusting

Heart connected

Receiving

Holding the creative potential

Inner

Feeling

Expanding, organic growth and inspiring vision

Collaborating and patient

Emerges

Happy to work from the present moment

Being

Works with the WE

TRAITS OF CORRUPTED FEMININE ENERGY

Manipulative and scheming

Inert and wimpish and vague

Scattered and disorganised and doesn’t get things done

Introverted

Confused and stuck

Governed by what others think

Over emotional to a point of being immobilised

Self sacrificing

Victim mode

ROLE AND FUNCTION OF HEALTHY FEMININITY

Equally as strong but in a still way, healthy femininity knows that all is very well in the world, and that trusting the mystical forces of life is enough to bring about all goals. It operates from experiencing the present moment and responds with instinctive knowingness and caring for all. It is inclusive in a non invasive way and waits on the intelligence of love to move it as it refers to the inner world. It is receptive, allowing all that is needed to be given it to bring about new forms in life.  Allowing, feeling and emergence are its key notes.

HOW TO GET THESE THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE WORKING IN HEALTHY WAYS WITHIN YOURSELF

1.       Monitor your thinking and move away from conditioned idea that you need to take action in order to heal. That is a stuck masculine approach.

2.       Use the healing power of feminine energy. By simply becoming aware of what mode is active within you moment by moment. That is enough to activate a natural success system that lives within you – and knows how to bring you to balance – if you will just allow it. This silent inner leader will help you make intuitive steps to bring your masculine and feminine energies into balance. Your only role is to know the characteristics of each and acknowledge which is operating when.

3.       It’s important to allow yourself to move fluidly between the masculine and feminine energies as guided by the circumstances. For example if you standing at the hospital admissions with a very sick child and getting to see a doctor is taking too long, that’s the time for masculine driving energy to become active and push things to happen. If however you partner has just had bad news, that’s the time for feminine deep quiet listening and loving support and caring to take over. In this way healthy masculine and feminine energies ask us to be fluid enough to dance between the two as the situation dictates. The more you work in this way, the more automatic and empowered it will become.

PERSONALITY & EGO ARE IMPORTANT IN ATTRACTING AND HOLDING SUCCESS

All too often I hear personality and ego berated, or at least talked down. Nonsense! All great men and women have great personalities.

Could Nelson Mandela have achieved what he has without his magical charisma? No!

Could Einstein have been the ground breaking scientist without his multifaceted specificity? No!

Personality/ego are containers to hold Divine Energy. The bigger the personality, the bigger the power. So turf ideas that you should be a transparent nothingness and be bold in being yourself, loving your personality and all the richness it brings to others.

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INSPIRING QUOTE

Here’s another magnificent quote from one of my most favourite books, the Aquarian Gospel. Hope it inspires you too:

‘I would not stay the flow of your great streams of thought; but I would turn them to the channel of the soul.’   

What I love about it is that it refers to the openness  and expansiveness that is characteristic of alignment with your Soul.

At the moment I am finding myself extremely challenged at a level of personal safety and quickly I go  into constricted mode, blocking my flow of energies of life and success. So I’m doing lots of meditation to help myself keep expansive. I have a brilliant toning done by Thomas Hubel, a spiritual teacher based in Germany, which really clears away much of emotional garbage. I’ll post his web details soon.

INSPIRING QUOTE

Here’s a deeply moving quote from the Aquarian Gospel.

‘But man has something in his Soul, a something that will tear the veil apart that he may see the world of real things. We call this something spirit consciousness; it sleeps in every Soul … it gets activated when the will of man throws wide the door through holy thought’.

WRITE A NOTE TO YOUR SOUL – AND HAVE BREAK THROUGH!

Write a big sign and note to your Soul 

‘Am I taking the right actions to achieve my financial goals? Show me  clearly, very clearly what I should do each day, every day, to achieve my money goals.’

Keep repeating the question, never ever trying to find the answers yourself. It’s an answer from your Soul you’re seeking. These answers arise in unexpected moments of being relaxed and at ease. After a time, it could be a day, a fortnight or 6 weeks, an intuitive flash will give you the answer. Yay!

SPIRITUAL PRACTICE IS ESSENTIAL TO BEING A BRILLIANT MANIFESTER. CONSCIOUS BREATHING – HERE’S HOW

Conscious breathing is something I keep referring to and writing about and if you do nothing but this as your spiritual practise, you will be doing a brilliant practice!

Here’s how:

1. find a quiet place where you will be undisturbed

2. set an alarm for three minutes so that you can completely let go and not worry about the time

3. close your eyes and bring your attention on your breathing

4. breathe in for the count of 4, pulling air to  your tummy so that it expands, hold it for 2 seconds, and then softly exhale for the count of 6, hold it out for 2  seconds.

5. Repeat this breathing until your alarm clock goes.

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MANIFESTING MONEY: Lesson 1

I woke last night at 2am. It was the thought of the money that hadn’t arrived in my bank yet that did it. Just one sliver of a thought, made powerful by the mental image of my debit orders being returned ‘no funds’, was potent enough to wake me from a deep sleep – and keep me awake. this is what happens when, in spite of our best efforts, our manifesting circuits are programmed to lack… Lets call it the unwealth program. The unwealth program unfortunately runs itself,  and in doing that,  creates more and more financial lack. The irony is that the program runs even when wonderful financial things are happening. It’s immune to embracing the great stuff. The truth is that your cells get programmed to the feeling of lack.
If these words speak to you, you’re invited to join a group of people who desire to release unwealth programs and move into new territory – great and wonderful flows of money. There’s much power in collective action, and it makes the whole thing more fun anyway! Raw with struggle and so close to the problem, we couldn’t be more ready to change but what lies before us is a dual parallel process :
1. Your unwealth program, which will continue to run
2. The new manifesting money program, which you will choose to run.I think of this dual process as the 50/50 phenomena – the agony and the ecstasy.  You will encounter both in order to release one.  Simply notice when you’re in one or the other. Having that awareness is enough to bring about a natural transformation.
Manifesting Money Process
  • STEP 1. ABRACADABRA : set the objective
  • STEP 2. MANIFESTATION EXERICES: the daily practise
  • STEP 3. MIND-MIND AWARENESS :  hearing what the unwealth program actually says to you
  • STEP 4. BODY-MIND AWARENESS :  connecting with the manifesting mechanism – the body

These 4 steps will be repeated over and over, day in and day out.  As you do this you’ll likely to have knee jerk reactions of fear that make you want to run the old patterns. That’s fine. You’re in THAT 50% section.  Just click your fingers three times to heighten the awareness of the unwealth program being active. This action is enough to get you to balance out into the new strategies. Don’t force it.

Today we’ll be doing ABRACADABRA.   This wonderful word, often heard as a child at a magic show, stems from the Aramaic “Ahbra Kedahbra” which translates to “I will create as I speak.”[dubious ] .  Isn’t that simply fab! We will be creating wealth as we speak!
But to start with, the only person you will speak to about the actual objective you’re going to set today , is yourself.  Keeping it secret will give you much needed space to build your wealth circuits.
Today I’d like you to chose one thing you want to manifest. You probably have a list, but there’s one that’s perfect. You’ll identify it by asking this question all day, right up to the moment of going to sleep. ‘What money goal is perfect for me to do in Cat’s Money Manifestation Project?’  Keep writing down the ideas that come, but don’t try to think them up.Your only job is to ask, then let go and notice what floats up, especially first thing tomorrow morning.  Take the first idea that comes up tomorrow morning; write it on a piece of paper and put it in a sealed envelope.  Be as clear as you can when you write down your objective e.g. R1000, five new clients, a economical car in good condition. Being vague e.g. lots of money,  impedes the process.Let me know if you’re joining so I can energetically hold you in our group, and then post your feedback on how this exercise went for you. Pop it on my blog comments for our group to see within 48 hours.
Good luck and enjoy!

MANIFESTING MONEY – ON LINE LESSONS – An Introduction

Come and join me for the next 10 days online. I will be posting a lesson a day about deliberate manifestation.. starting this afternoon at 14.00pm.
INTRODUCTION
This is the first in a series of posts about manifestation, deliberate manifestation. We are all manifesting all the time. We cannot avoid that. Who we are, our beliefs and patterns, but most importantly our feelings, conscious/unconscious, are acting as a mould which directs the life force to create circumstances and situations in our lives.

Deliberate manifestation moves that process from an unconscious to a conscious one, and that is an exciting development – one that our Soul has been waiting for. When we put ourselves in the driver seat in this way, we set about learning the very things that our Soul is interested in – how we can work on the inner to raise our consciousness – and impact the world around us.
Soul is about manifesting life deliberately, and there is nowhere more potent forum for this than the arena of money.

Far from being the root of all evil, money and the making of it, is the root of all learning when done with Soul principles in mind. When guided by your Soul, finding money becomes a sacred journey  that raises your consciousness. So to set this truth up in your beingness and prepare you to go to a new money level, lesson one on our manifesting money is to write out these affirmations about money, and put it up on your wall:
The pursuit of money is a good thing. My Soul guides me in this.
Getting and keeping money raises my consciousness.
I deserve, and have the ability to earn money, mega money, fast.
Look at these affirmations, and say them out loud as often as you can, but at least 5 times in the morning on waking, and five times at night before sleeping. This ensures you set up your day in the right way, and get your subconscious to keep processing your money stuff at night. Words stated out loud are potent because they override your subconscious programming, and also influence the particles around you. Just trust as you make these statements that you are unleashing some magic in your world – and you will!
In the next few day’s I’ll be looking at the principle of Oneness and its role in deliberate manifestation, and also the importance of owning your sh*te.

The body infuses your goals with energy

Affirmations, visualisations and right behaviour are all good and well but unless you feel the thing you want in your body, it won’t come into your world.  

The body is the mouth piece of the unconscious. Be wise. Listen to it. When the body resonates with your life goals and desires, you are aligned to the creative power of the universe. It becomes easy. When the body resonates with something else, ie what you might NOT want, that will bring confusion, discomfort and what you consider as failure.

‘There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophies.’  Fredrich Nietzche

So what do we do if we realise that our outer efforts are in conflict with some inner process, or feeling? The answer is simple.  Use the body to release the conflicting part. Use the body to bring about the healing. Use the body to inform.  Use the body.

 The body has infinite wisdom and power

There are 6 trillion chemical reactions in the human body every second, and each cell has its own intelligence which governs what happens in that cell. But did you know that each cell communicates with other cells? In fact each cell knows what every other cell in the body is doing.  And even more astounding is how each cell tracks everything that is happening to every other cell in the body, including the 6 trillion biochemical processes that are happening to that cell each moment. 

Moreover this overlighting body intelligence monitors what is happening outside itself too.  Your body keep track of the sun, so that it can, for instance, secrete different chemicals in the day and different ones at night. One of those chemical changes is the secretion of melatonin which helps you go to sleep at night.

Imagine if the body didn’t monitor the sun and started pumping out melatonin during the day as you are driving your car! Oops.  Not good.  You rely on this amazing intelligence and ability to keep operating properly.  Real success requires you to consciously work with this intelligence to achieve your life purpose. Dr David Hawkins says in his book Power vs. Force that the mind uses the body to think. Remember this fact. This realisation will empower you.

The body influences the universal energy field

We live in a big ocean of energy, and your energy field, the one held by and generated through your body, is forever interacting with that ocean. You, through you body, have the ability to influence the energy field of all of life, sending and receiving vibrations that affect, no, create, your very circumstances.  What you do with your body, counts big time.  Rumi says it like this: No prayer is complete without presence.

So much to learn about this. I recommend an excellent movie by Gregg Braden on YOU Tube.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MP_JXkh9m-A  

A GREAT EXAMPLE OF HOW CAT WORKS WITH HER SOUL TO BRING ABOUT UPLIFTED MANIFESTATION

On Tuesday I had a day from heaven! What made it fabulous beyond fabulous, was that it was set up to be a day from hell. Ok, not literally, thank goodness. But the set up was perfect for toil and trouble, snot and drama.
I recently moved into what I considered dream offices and training rooms. Within the space of a week however, the deal had turned upside down. The company who was moving out decided not to move out. Because the landlord couldn’t handle the situation emotionally, he turned the admin of the premises over to the tenant who had decided to stay. What followed was a very slick case of passive forced removal. First he refused to give me the office I had chosen and agreed, then he more than doubled the rent, and 10 days later booted me out!
When I received the very nasty email telling me to leave it felt like a dagger into my heart. It wasn’t a simple email. It was an energetic barb and affected me deeply. I loved the offices and my first response was pain. Then it turned to vindictive anger during which I wrote an stinging response to him and the landlord explaining my legal rights and viewpoint on ethics. Fortunately I decided to sleep on it before sending the mail. Guess what happened? My internet went down for nearly a week! Life stopped me from sending the mail and during that internet down time, the task of packing up physically allowed me to access a higher perspective AND find the offices that were really for me. This is how it went.
At some point in the drama I remembered the key truth I teach: anger, pain and stress close the heart. Since the heart is the manifesting organ, contemplating stinging emails was the worst thing I could do for myself, my future. The only person that would suffer would be me! As I took this in, another realisation dropped through the pipeline into my consciousness. Could it be that I was paying back karmic debt having operated that very way in business myself many years ago? As I packed up, both realisations settled into my cells, and I left with a heart open and a mind free. But let me tell you of the miracles that happened to help me pack up, and move on.
Firstly I had a significant dream after the rent was raised. In the dream I was in the office allocated to me. My office cupboard had been moved away from the door and two elderly yet fit men were inspecting the place. As I watched them in the dream I realised they were going to help me do up the place, in particular paint the walls white. The dream was so clear that when I woke up the next day I drew a picture and made notes. I felt very certain that I was being mystically helped with my office situation.
Secondly I never made plans to move. I simply woke up on the 1st, and tried to get hold of a truck. When I wasn’t successful I got into my little car and headed towards the office to start packing. On the way I stopped to take a call. When I pulled back into the road I took note that it had set me back time wise. But I thought ‘”I’m in the perfect time always””. Shortly after that  I noticed  a little white truck driving in front of me and started to wonder if this truck and driver operated their own business.
I said to myself  that if he continued on my route, I would jump out and approach him. And that’s exactly what happened. There and then, on the side of the road in the sparkling morning sun, I found the means to move at a cost I could afford – and within the hour. Then my sister said her gardener to help me carry furniture. The move went like clockwork and on the way back from dropping the gardener back at my sister’s house, I noticed a sign on a white walled property. ‘”conference space to rent (at great prices)”
Wow! That caught my interest. I travelled on. I started to go slower. That conference space was calling me. I travelled even slower.  Then suddenly I did a U turn and went back. You see, when riding the flow of life, it’s your feet that do the leading, not your head. And it happens in the present moment, not by mental plan. It’s a about responding to the desires that run unexpectedly through your consciousness like a gentle breeze playing on water. So  I drove into the office campus and stopped outside the conference centre that had first drawn me. Here, in spite of the many open places, couldn’t seem to find the right space to park and drove my car in crazy circles. Bizarre but true! So instead I continued down the road as it narrowed down and wove amongst the African bush.
My car found itself in front of a beautiful rambling thatch house, obviously occupied by businesses. Following my feet once again I simply went into the first door I saw. Glass and light and high reaching ceilings greeted me and I wandered into the offices shouting “”hello, hello””.  Not really knowing what I was doing there, I asked the first thing that came to mind “”do you by any chance have office space””.  And so it was I met the most delightful human being and found perfect offices, at the perfect price, and in a complex shared by others who aspired to uplifted business and higher conscious living.

This dear reader is the potential that life offers us all. To let go of the need to plan, attack or repress. To allow the Divine Life Force to take us to the place where we should be – not by a voice that speaks from the heavens, nor by downloading a plan into our minds, but simply by following our feet as directed by our heart. Then all things work together for our higher good, and life becomes a joyous expression, an easy process of simply riding the river!  Effortless effort. Stop Pushing. Start Riding.